The way I garden is the way I do almost everything in my life.

Welcome to Incredibly Wanted. I’m so glad you’ve found your way here. Before we get into the first episode, I want to introduce myself and give you a little context for how and why this podcast came to be. So first…. My name is Gretchen Hill – I’m 44, and I’m single, and I live […]

When a death is fresh, there is nothing going on that is not about the death.

In the weeks that followed my mother’s death, the busyness that occurs immediately afterwards slowed down and a sinking quiet rolled in like a fog over the harbor. That initial busyness is essential to surviving the first shock of death. The brain needs tasks, a to-do list, to keep its attention turned safely away from the fact that life is currently in a free-fall, permanently changed and changing.